Monday, February 28, 2011

POSITIVE SELF TALK

Sometimes, we normally blame our thoughts for our actions. This is very psychological. We think negatively, we get negative output. And it has been proven stressful. Negative thinking attracts negative energy. It can affect us in many ways. So, to get away with it, we have to practice positive self talk. It is one thing of getting positive energies around. Developing it is very easy.
There are many ways of practicing positive self talk. One of it is interacting with positive people. When the people around you are inspiring and are good friends who are willing to help you when you’re down, then these people contain positive energy that could help you. Maintain a good relationship between you and your friends. It could uplift you to become a healthier person mentally and physically.
Listening to mellow music with good lyrics could be a great help also. It could be an inspirational song. It’s much better than having crazy thoughts like criticisms running through your mind. Make yourself comfortable with the music, throwing away other things in mind. There is a lot of mellow music out there. Try to choose the one with inspiring lyrics.
It is best also if you try to read books that talks about success, strengths and enlightenment. In a way, it can help you change the way you think. Reading a bible is the most powerful way of getting away from stress. It will inspire you to make good thinking for your actions.
Think about what you are trying to have in your life. It could be a healthy lifestyle or supportive friends around. You can write it down in a paper. Only register positive thoughts in your mind. Be sure it will work for you. Have your mind set to things that are hopeful and are realistic.
When you make a positive self talk, make sure it is really positive. Make it real and experiment, and see what feels right for you.
Take rid of bad habits. A good way to stop it is to change it with something better. When you self talk and had more negative words, neutralize it. Look for milder words. Like for example, from the word hate. When you use hate in a sentence like “I hate bad weather”, it sounded more powerful. But instead of using that word, try “I don’t like bad weather”, it’s milder though.
Positive self talk makes you stress- free.
Develop a good habit of positive thinking and you will be surprise one day. You will live a healthy lifestyle. And you will be mentally and physically healthy.


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Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Why Forgiveness May Be Bad for Your Marriage

“Forgive and forget,” the old saying goes. Well, if you care about your marriage, you might want to think twice before following that advice. A new study conducted at the University of Tennessee found that spouses who are forgiven for negative behaviors are more likely to keep repeating them.

In the study 135 newly married couples were asked to keep daily diaries of their interactions, recording if their partner did something negative and whether they forgave him/her for this behavior. Spouses who forgave their partners were almost twice as likely to report that their partner misbehaved the following day as those who held a grudge, the study’s author, associate psychology professor James McNulty, told the Knoxville News Sentinel.

“There is one plausible explanation,” said McNulty. “Forgiveness allows relatively negative partners to continue their negative behaviors, ultimately harming the relationship.”

This doesn’t mean that people should never forgive their partners, cautions family therapist Kay Francis. Instead people must confront negative behaviors and deal with the causes or motivations behind them before forgiving their spouses. If people forgive behaviors without talking about them then the forgiveness isn’t meaningful, cautions Francis.

Source: Knoxville News Sentinel, Journal of Family Psychology, MSNBC


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12 RULES OF A HAPPY MARRIAGE


Never be both angry at the same time.
(Proverbs 2:15,Romans 12:17)
If you have to criticize,do it lovingly.
(2 Timothy 3:16,Romans 13:10)
Never bring up mistakes of the past.
(Proverbs 17:9)
Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
(Ephesians 4:3)
Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
(1 John 4:7,Ephesians 5:22)
Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
(Jeremiah 2:15,Romans 12:17)
If one of you is to win an argument,let it be your mate.
(Psalm 1:1,Proverbs 16:18)
At least once each day,say a kind or complimentary thing to your partner.
(Ephesians 4:29,Proverbs 16:24)
When you have done something wrong,be ready to admit and ask for forgiveness.
(Ephesians 4:32)
It takes two to make a quarrel,and the one in the wrong does the most talking.
(James 3:8)
Always acknowledge God in all your ways and plans, and put Him first place in your life.
(Proverbs 3:6,Matthew 6:33)
Above all,fear God and His commandments.
(Proverbs 3:6,Matthew 6:33)


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Friday, February 18, 2011

MY MUSIC VIDEO (ala lang)


                                                                      


  the full-length of this video IMAGINE ME WITHOUT YOU can be viewed at my facebook  wall...


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BLUE DIAMOND NECKLACE

piclyf
i want to have it for my collections...



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FINALLY

Last wednesday , a friend shared a link on my facebook account. It is about Paid to Click. I tried the link and got trouble on it at first. But finally, i got it...
I'm on my way to earning dollars at home just by clicking...
Thanks God!
Credits also to my friend...you know who you are...
I awe alot from you...
You want to earn like me?
As what my friend told me...do not trust anyone who asked you to pay an amount before earning...There are lots of sites offering online jobs. Read everything and go over every sites you found. 

IMAGINE ME WITHOUT YOU


Music touches our soul. It's the most soulful gift from heaven.Everytime I listen to it,it makes me feel so much better.And this song, I offer to God-one of my favorites.I love you Lord...


As long as stars shine down from heaven
And the rivers run into the sea
Til the end of time forever
You’re the only love I’ll need

In my life you’re all that matters
In my eyes the only truth I see
When my hopes and dreams have shattered
You’re the one that’s there for me

When I found you I was blessed
And I will never leave you, I need you

Chorus:
Imagine me without you
I’d be lost and so confused
I wouldn’t last a day, I’d be afraid
Without you there to see me through

Imagine me without you
Lord, you know it’s just impossible
Because of you, it’s all brand new
My life is now worthwhile
I can’t imagine me without you

When you caught me I was falling
You’re love lifted me back on my feet
It was like you heard me calling
And you rush to set me free

When I found you I was blessed
And I will never leave you, I need you

Chorus

When I found you I was blessed
And I will never leave you, I need you oh

Chorus

I can’t imagine me without you

Thursday, February 17, 2011

A LOVE STORY

written by yari

This is a no Romeo and Juliet love story.

It all started when girl meets boy in the LOVE TOWN.Girl was new there and lives with her aunt.The first time boy saw girl,he was attracted to it.

Late one night,boy took a chance talking to girl about his feelings.Girl was flattered but didn't show it.They became friends.

Then one day, boy had to go to the resort he had been working.Girl tried her luck too to get a job there.Luckily,girl had it.Boy was so glad to have girl working with him in that said resort.

On there first day of work,alot of guys noticed  girl and was attracted to her.They begun courting girl and even asked help from boy.Not knowing that boy had the same feelings of admiration.Girl talked about it to boy and told him she doesn't like it.So girl asked one favor to boy,asking him to pretend they were lovers.Boy loves the idea and agreed to girl with no hesitations.

It was then one day,all of them at the same department on that resort planned to go out swimming.Boy told everyone there that girl was his girlfriend now.They wouldn't believe, so boy and girl  have to pretend more.They acted they were really lovers.Boy holds her hand,embraces her and even kissed her.Girl started to feel awkward,not because she doesn't like what boy was doing to her but because she felt strange inside her.She felt her heart was going to explode everytime boy kissed her.Butterflies are flying inside her now.She started to like boy even more.

That fake relationship became real one day when boy got drunk.He called girl telling he wanted to talk to her.Boy begun telling girl his feelings.He even cried expressing his love to girl.Then suddenly boy kissed girl intimately.Girl didn't resist,she even kissed boy with all her love.Boy started to undress her,they both share one intimate moment together.

And from there on,the relationship grew more stronger.

And for now,they were living happily everafter... 





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Wednesday, February 16, 2011

ISANG TULA

IKAW NA BA?


ni: Yari



Sino ka ba na laging gumigising sa tulog kong isipan?
Na ginagambala ang puso kong nalulumbay?
Sino ka ba na sumasagi sa aking balintataw?
Ikaw ba'y kayang abutin ng aking pananaw?

Ang aking pusong minsan ng inulila
Ng isang pag- ibig na puno ng ligaya
Ikaw ba ang siyang magdudulot ng saya?
Sana'y ikaw na, ikaw na ba?

Minsan sa aking pagtulog aking napanaginipan
Na ako'y iyong kasama sa iyong pamamasyal
Ang hindi ko mawari ay ang kahulugan
Na anino mo lamang ang aking nasilayan.

Pinilit kong alamin ang anyo mong inaasam
Ngunit bigo akong kita'y mamasdan
Nang ikaw ay magpaalam upang lumisan
Wala akong magawa kundi ang mangulila.

Sa aking paggising lungkot ang kapiling
Pilit na binabalikan ang lumisang panaginip
Puso'y sumisigaw, nagtatanong pilit
Sino ka ba? Ikaw na ba?


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Tuesday, February 15, 2011

MY LITTLE PRINCESS

This is JHAJHA, my 4 year old daughter. She looks exactly as her dad but she attributed alot from me. She loves music, she sings well (perfect tune,no lyrics)..lol.

She loves SPONGEBOB SQUAREPANTS (fave lines,spongebob ripped his pants again), BARBIE AND DORA the EXPLORER.

I am so proud of this little ANGEL God gave me. She is very sweet, friendly, generous (excluding things she owned,she will never give or lend it), polite and thoughtful.

At her age, you will be amazed of how she thinks. She acted like someone who had grown alot and more mature. She had everything a mom could ever wish.

Eversince I gave birth to her, I can't think of times I get into so much trouble. She understands when I told her we can't buy toys and other stuffs if we dont have much money.

When her father makes a phone call, she had  this lines to say;
"Pa, i miss you, goodnight, love you...or morning pa, love you!"

Scripted though but is so nice to hear from a four year old.

She will be attending school this opening (June 2011).
She is very excited...guess for what?
"schoolbags and stuffs for school" hahahaha
And for her lunchpack.

Don't you know that she already enumerated the food I am going to buy for her when she gets to school? Silly JHAJHA. I could have a list of it if she already knows how to write...lol...Good she doesn't know it yet!

But she is so familiar with alphabets and numbers. Show her a word or a sentence then she'll spell everything for you. She can even count 1- 50.

Latest of all, she had her facebook account. She knows alot about internet, like sharing,copy- paste and alot more!

Alot of people loves my little princess.

But i love her, more than anything in this world. 






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IT'S PAY DAY

Hooray! It's payday...
Should I be glad or should I feel bad?
Yes indeed,today is pay day, but I have my own interpretation of it...
Guess what???
Today will be the day to pay debts...lol!
People we awe are waiting for me now...
Should I hide???
No of course..!
Being a wife is never easy..You have to take time for the budgeting and financing in the family...
Good for me now, I have no apartment to pay, no electric bills, for I am staying at my mother's house...
But still, I find it hard to manage it well...
So I entrusted it to God alone...
Bless the money I am holding Lord...
Multiply it...
Amen!


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MY SISTER'S 1ST WEDDING ANNIVERSARY

Today is my sister's 1st wedding anniversary.She got a diamond necklace as a gift from her husband and a greeting card saying my sister is beautiful from the very first time he saw her.I laughed coz Larry knows how to say it...hehe..

To my sister and her loving  husband,congratulations and goodluck...

Small is the trust when love is green
In sap of early years;
A little thing steps in between
And kisses turn to tears.

A while--and see how love be grown
In loveliness and power!
A while, it loves the sweets alone,
But next it loves the sour.

- Robert Louis Stevenson


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HOW BLOGGING WORKS

Knowing from a friend,although we haven't talked about this,i learned that we can earn money from blogging.Funny though coz it's my first time here and i am still on the verge of discovering alot of things.A friend just shared to me a link on money making in blogging.I wish i could earn some soon...lol!


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Valentine's Day

Valentine's day is over...

I cannot say my valentine's day this year is great. My husband is not here to celebrate with me. But I am always thankful God gave me someone like him. I am always grateful for this wonderful gift from heaven,plus a very smart daughter and supportive family and friends. And to add, the people who hated me, they make me become a better person. I thanked God for having them in my life.

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!


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Monday, February 14, 2011

WELCOME TO MY BLOGSPOT

Feel free to post and comment...
Just be decent,smart and nice...
THANK YOU..!


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